I’m running for Hugh, for his family and friends, and for all the men and young men who are struggling in silence.
These men could be your husband, cousin, son, nephew, brother and uncle.
I’m also incredibly proud to be raising money for Action on Male Suicide, a charity whose work I feel passionately about.
Here’s are some words from Hugh’s mum:
“The pain of losing a much-loved son to suicide is indescribable.
“What makes that pain even harder to bear is knowing that my kind, clever, funny, considerate and loving son’s death was preventable. Life for my family is forever darker without him.
“75% of suicides are male, so we need a suicide prevention strategy designed specifically for men. Viewing suicide purely as a clinical or mental health issue is outdated. Research shows male suicide is often a response to external pressures.
“Men can talk differently from women, and when they cannot see a solution, suicide may feel like the only option.
“Reducing male suicide is not only the responsibility of men themselves; it is also the responsibility of society, public institutions and services.
“Urgent education is needed on causes, risk factors and the correct support. Many public institutions, services, employers and even some suicide prevention services remain poorly informed.
“I truly believe Action for Male Suicide can meet this urgent education need and save lives. It is too late for my son, but I am hopeful it can help prevent other families experiencing the same loss”.
Why this matters to me?
As a counsellor, I see how important it is that people feel able to talk, feel heard and receive the right support at the right time. Action on Male Suicide’s research-led approach is particularly important to me because we need to understand what genuinely works for men, rather than making assumptions about how men should seek or receive help.
Hugh was just 19 when he died. Four years later, I wanted to remember him by doing something positive in his memory and by supporting a charity whose work is focused on understanding male suicide and finding better ways to support men who are struggling.
So, on 25th October, I’ll be putting one foot in front of the other and running for Hugh, and Action On Male Suicide raising as much money as I can.
For Hugh. For men. For those who are struggling. And for those who are still here. 🧡
